Once abuse is suspected, it is of utmost importance parties intervening work "covertly" and "speedily" before momentum is built up of allegations, distorted truth is built up by these criminals.
It is vital that the abuse is reported to theproper authorities BEFORE the ABUSERS paint their"slant" of events, to the point of trying to discredit innocent party (ies).
This is especially true if the abusers outnumber a party who has come to the victim's aid, or before this innocent party recognizes the abuse, is stripped of his/her credibility ~ either due to the distance ~another province ~out of the country.
Abusers often look for a scapegoat to take the focus ofthe abusers actions - i.e. evicting their own father out of his home, etc. and twist the facts to focus the blame on the rescuing party!
Known to government officials due to employment, or proximity of where they live, these abusers have made "friends" with these employees over the years, who these abusers have managed to deceive over the years appearing as law-abiding citizens.
Be proactive in your own affairs! Recognize abuse before it escalates!
Recommended Actions to Ensure Justice:
1. Strategically tape record every conversation with victim to confirm abuse, in the event victim forced to "recant" their statements when under pressure or threats from abusers.
2. Get copies of records of victims as proof of financial abuse.
3. Get unbiased medical assessments for victim to confirm competency as abusers get an unfair and loaded biased medical opinion to suit their hidden agenda.
4. Take pictures of what may at the time appear unrelated events as proof of events for future.
5. If abuse involves property, check title registration and mortgages, lines of credits, caveats on title. Procure the original documentation drawn up at the lawyer's office to ensure that registration was done in a timely manner (usually five business days) which may uncover corruption within the system itself.
6. Question any document's authenticity as document may have been doctored, forged, or drawn up "retroactively" to hide abuse?
7. Does the victim have information contrary to what the records show? If so, may require further inquiries from lawyer's, Land Titles.
8. Was safety deposit tampered with?
9. Were "Wills" requested for safekeeping by abusers? Were "Wills" revised to exclude family members for no apparent reason? Was this done when victim under the influence of street-drugs, morphine or misdiagnosis of dementia, or influence of alcohol whereby victim virtually has no memory of signing any paperwork.
10. Is the document witness in attendance? Or signed at a later date? Documents signed at home? Not at Land Titles, without a lawyer present, document possibly drawn up by corrupt employee of Land Titles who is in a position to type in her name fraudulently rendering her now "jointtenant"with stepfather as in this case?
11. At funeral home, is the victim's name forged on credit card paying for deceased own funeral services at which occurred in this case?
12. Is new "Will" withheld or secretive for months after revision brought forward surfacing only after death of victim?
13. Immediately after funeral, is there a demand to be paid out for property of the "estate"?
14. Abuser constantly states "trust me". Victim is not allowed independent legal advice to ensure rights not violated? Isolated from other family members? Abusers make fun or discourage parents from having any contact with other siblings for fear of being exposed? Are there multiple blank copies to be used at a later date, or after death?
15. Are victims told repeatedly " you are confused","you are not educated, dumb" forced to turn over their financial affairs to abuser in the guise of doing good?
16. Could the "confusion" only be lack of being toldthe truth which the victim, recognizes that something does not "add up" is then discouraged from involving independent third parties to clear up the "confusion".
17. Being told that an "entry" on a credit card statement "is forgery by a family member" in order to have victim unknowingly come against innocent party accused. This tactic of "conquer and divide" used cunningly by the abuser as a means to alienate and isolate victim and to create distrust of innocent party who is a position to expose deceit.
18. Powers of attorney are to be used for emergency purposes only and should be retained in a safety deposit box or at a lawyer's office with instructions not to be released unless in event of car accident, stroke, dementia, etc. To prevent abuse, under no circumstancesshould a lawyer provide a copy to the family member without firstconsulting with the donor.
19. In the case of a "Will", an original should be retained in the lawyer's office in the event original is in a safety deposit box frozen by the financial institution at time of death.
20. Having already stripped their victims financially, abusers take advantage of vulnerable- fixed-income parties and count on inability to afford "legal representation" to enforce the victim's legal rights. Abusers then avoid having to be made accountable for their actions only to continue their pattern of taking advantage of vulnerable parties.
21. Victims "evicted" out of their homes, are now forced to pay rent out of their meager income, despite having a "life estate agreement" with their abuser who now refuses to honor their agreement.
22. Assets may become "confiscated" vans, motor-homes, trucks, tractors, personal possessions, birth certificates, passports, traveler's checks, family memorabilia, pictures, property, inheritances, medication, etc.
23. Have victims records been destroyed? Bank statements? Title certificates gone missing?
24. Ensure that you are working with a financiallyastute independent party who is well-versed in the signs of abuse, proficient in reading statement, relevant documents, registrations presented to them and familiar with procedures, how the system works to detect and expose abusive behavior which abusers have studied and taken advantage of the weaknesses in the system.
25. Never take anything at face value when dealing with abusers as they master the artofdeceptionin their words, writing and actions, effectively"twisting the truth" to cover their actions ~ scheming, cold and calculating at best using a "little" truth and twisting it to unrecognizable lengths giving the appearance of "doing things in the name of good", and in so doing deceiving all those concerned!
26. Judges, Justices of the Peace do not refer to prior court records,for evidence of blatant perjury by abusers by way of notarized affidavits, testimonies under oath, contradicting one another!
As a result of the flaw in the system, abusers make a mockery of the legal system in that there is no recourse or incentive to hold criminals accountable for their perjury! So the cycle of abuse continues for years, with no checks and balances in place to convict criminals for their deceit to the Courts...
Vulnerable seniors as well as innocent parties are victimized, incarcerated, and committed as a result of the widespread deception currently ongoing in our penal system!
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